Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Get Real
By Jeannine Sawall

 “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” 
Galatians 5:1 

My children loved to play dress-up. At any moment, you could find them dressed in a suit of armor, a superhero costume, have a bucket on their head as they slayed a dragon, or a fuzzy lion’s mane as they roared around the kitchen. I remember one day, my youngest changed his persona about four times in the span of an hour. Finally, he took off his costume and became a “real” boy again.

As children, dressing up and pretending to be something you’re not is a great way to grow creatively; however, as Christians, pretending to be someone or something we aren’t is never a good thing. We are called to live authentic lives and to be real.

We may feel that to be a “good Christian,” we need to go out into the world hiding behind our armor, because if anyone saw the “real me” or knew our “real thoughts,” they would think less highly of us. We wear false manes of courage so that God looks “good,” even though we may be struggling with fear on the inside. Or maybe we put our mask on at church. We walk the walk and talk the talk, and then when we exit the doors, we take off our “church face” and live a whole different life.

Either way, whether you’re hiding behind a Christian mask out in public or you’re wearing your Christian costume at church, God knows your heart. There’s no use pretending with Him because He is there with the “real us,” seeing our innermost thoughts and desires. He wants us to live lives that are authentic, throwing off the burden of pretending. Our goal should never be trying to earn  God’s love or keep up appearances, but to focus on the One who already calls us His beloved, trusting Him to help us walk the way He’s called us to walk.  
 
Yes, we all have fears and doubts at times, and we will fall short.  But being “real” in this world concerning our struggles, fears and faults allows others to see the difference Christ can make in our lives if we allow Him. Don’t settle for the artificial. While dress-up is a great game to play as a child, there comes a point where we need to put the masks away with each other - -  and with God - - and get real.    
 
GOING DEEPER:
1.  Where in your life are you pretending?
2.  What mask do you need to remove to bring a deeper level of authenticity into your walk?

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Jeannine is a wife and active mother of four boys. She works in property management and is a part of the Special Events team for Oakwood’s We Women ministries.