Hold Tight…Tomorrow, Too

By Elizabeth Cole

“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”

1 John 3:1a

When I was four, I would commonly spend Sunday evenings in my grandparents’ home, relishing my princess status as we had tea parties together. Precious memories are still easily bidden, including the frequent game that revolved around “Let’s pretend that I’m the mom and you’re the children…and you must do everything I tell you.” Oh my…no comment! That one worked well until just about bedtime, at which point I was kindly reminded that the game was over and I needed to be the child once more.

So it was as the child that I experienced my sweetest memory. At the end of an endearing bedtime ritual, my grandfather would take my little-girl hand, gently kiss the palm and fold my fingers over it. “Hold tight what I give you,” he’d whisper before quietly leaving the bedroom. Every time, I’d concentrate on clutching my hand tightly over my grandfather’s kiss, determined to keep it all night. And, of course, every morning it would be gone, released in slumber.

But I don’t remember ever being saddened at the loss, not once. And I suppose that it must be because I knew my grandfather so very well. It never occurred to me that there wouldn’t be plenty more kisses for the next day…and the next, as well. I knew him; I knew his generosity; and I confidently depended on his love for me.

I think about that a lot. When I wonder if I’ve reached the end of my allotment of blessings from the Father’s hand. When I find myself worrying that this time when I obey, I’ll fall alone, flat on my face. When an unbidden thought mocks me with God’s inattention.

But then I remember. We know Him. We’ve experienced His generosity over and over again, and we have depended on His unchanging love. He never leaves us; He has loved us with an everlasting love; His mercies are new every single morning.

Arise, beloved, confident this morning in the love the Father has for you. Hold out your hand.

GOING DEEPER:
1. Where are you tempted to question God’s unending love and involvement in your life today? Are you willing to look back, and to make a list of all those times He’s proven His love, awareness and presence?
2. Who will you tell?

FURTHER READING:
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17; John 14:7, 15:9; Psalm 36:5-10

Elizabeth is a wife, mother to three grown daughters, and Director of Connecting and Women’s Ministries at Oakwood Church.

A New Dance Step

By Peggy Kleckner

“My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.”

James 1:19

Oh, how I have wanted to incorporate this verse into my life! I certainly want the righteous life that God desires for me. Imagine me being quick to listen and slow to speak. I am sure those who know me best would say I have those two commands reversed! As I pondered this verse, I noted the tempo…quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. The three words jumped out at me: quick, slow, slow. They reminded me of a dance lesson I once took with my husband. It had a slightly different tempo, though: quick, quick, slow. Our teacher said those words aloud over the music, helping us to remember what our feet should be doing. She spoke the words at their tempo; quick was spoken quickly and slow was drawn out slowly. Since we were new to dancing, we moved pretty awkwardly, but as we practiced, it got easier and more natural.

As I think about this analogy, it dawns on me that Jesus invites us onto the dance floor…the dance floor of our lives…and He wants to lead us at His tempo: quick, slow, slow. As we take His hand, continuing to learn His ways, He will speak encouraging words in our ears. Oh, we will misstep often and tread on his toes repeatedly, but He is a very patient teacher. We must look into His face and trust Him to lead, for He certainly knows the right steps. We must make Him our focus, not looking down at our own feet! This dance may take a while for us to catch on to, but imagine the benefits that can come from practicing! I believe He invites each of us to learn from Him. And, dancing to the tempo just makes it a little more fun a lot easier to remember.

Quick, slow, slow….I better run. I think my dance number is being called!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Which part of this “tempo” do you need to focus on? Quick to listen? Slow to speak? Slow to become angry?
2. What are some things you could do to make sure you are allowing Jesus to lead you in that area?
3. If you think it would be helpful, post this verse in an obvious place today to remind you of your “dance steps.”

FURTHER READING:
Psalm 32:8-11; Proverbs 16:20; Proverbs 23:12

Peggy is a wife and mother of four adult children - two sons and two stepsons.

His Workmanship

By Shelly Schumacher

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.”

Ephesians 2:10

Ask my parents and they will surely tell you, Shelly Connors was not created as a quiet and demure little girl. As a child, I was loud, boisterous and was often scolded for talking in class. My mouth regularly got me in trouble as I often said the most inappropriate things at the most inopportune times.

When I first became a follower of Christ and started attending Bible studies, I felt like a fish out of water. As a young mother, I sat around the table with a group of wonderful women. Each seemed to have just the right thing to say and knew exactly when to add it to the conversation. I felt that every time I opened my mouth, I spewed forth the most uninspired drivel. I honestly believed that in order to be a true Christian woman, I must fit into a mold of quiet, soft-spoken and reserved.

As I have grown in my faith, God has clearly showed me that He wants me just as I am. He created me to fill a part of the Body of Christ and to complement the other parts. My personality is not a coincidence – it is exactly the way I am supposed to be. With that being said, God has also taught me that within my personality there is a gentle spirit. And he has shown me when this quiet spirit should be utilized.

When Paul wrote to the church in Ephesus, his goal was to build them up in their faith. He wrote to encourage them and let them know of the great love that God has for His creation. Paul spoke of God as a master artisan. Like any artist, God’s work is inspired. Each thing He creates has its own unique attributes and characteristics. The plan for creation, however, is not haphazard. God creates each person with special gifts and abilities so that he or she can serve the entire body of believers.

As I learn about the gifts that God has given me, I have become more comfortable in my “less than dainty” Christian womanhood. I realize now that God desires to utilize me just as I am, loud mouth and all.

GOING DEEPER:
1. What special attributes has God given you that don’t seem to fit the “Christian mold”? How do/could you use these qualities to serve God?
2. Praise and thank God for your uniqueness.

FURTHER READING:
Psalm 139:14; Psalm 40:5; Job 5:9; Isaiah 55:8

Shelly is wife to Nick and mom to her two girls. She spends her time freelancing as a writer/PR professional, and is active in Oakwood's worship and drama ministries.

Wilting Flowers

By Jen Wollner

"I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers…”

John 15:5-6

One of my favorite things in this world is fresh-cut flowers. My spirits are lifted by the pop of color they add to any room. I savor the sweet aroma that wafts from their buds. And, I treasure the gesture of love another person shows to me when they give me a vase full of them. There’s only one thing that I don’t like about a beautiful bouquet of flowers: They quickly die! Even if I add a packet of “flower food” to the water, they don’t produce any new buds, they just simply shrivel up.

The reason flowers wither is obvious: They are no longer connected to the plant and its life-sustaining nutrients. Our verse for today reminds us that we are much the same way. God is our source of life and when we are cut off from Him, we quickly begin to droop. Apart from our Power Source, we are weak and, ultimately, can’t accomplish anything worthy of eternity. But, when we stay close to the Lord through His Word and prayer, Scripture tells us that we will “bear much fruit.” In other words, our character will look more like His and our actions will be the evidence of our intimacy with Him. Among other things, we will love others more fully and exude more patience, kindness and self-control. If we have accepted Christ as Savior and are cultivating a deep relationship with Him, obediently following His example, He will be glorified through the good works that are produced through us. No imitation nourishment can fill us up and empower us the same way our God can. We’ve got to be connected to the Source!

Oh, the loveliness of the godly fruit we bear through Christ…and the pleasing scent that lingers...

GOING DEEPER:
1. Are you receiving the sustenance offered by Jesus, the vine? If not, will you commit today to cultivating a closer relationship with Him?
2. If you are being nourished by Him regularly, what fruit are you bearing as evidence of your “remaining” in Him?

FURTHER READING:
John 15:1-17; Galatians 5:22-23

Jen and her husband are busily parenting three children between the ages of seven and three. She serves on the leadership team for Mission: Hope, Oakwood’s orphan care ministry.

Preservatives Included

By Elin Henderson

“You have granted me life and favor, and Your care has preserved my spirit.”

Job 10:38 (NKJV)

As much as everyone hates preservatives, once and awhile, I wish I had a few on hand! When you live in a place with temps in the triple digits over half of the year…no AC, no fans, and 100% humidity round the clock, well, let’s just say food doesn’t preserve well! Chips or cookies left uncovered for more than an hour or so will turn to mush, and if left uncovered for more than that, will end up changing into hues of green and yellow mold! If it wasn’t for my freezer and supply of Ziplocs and Tupperware, we’d hardly have anything edible! Shelf life of everything from fruit and veggies to dairy products - - even refrigerated - - is definitely limited!

What is the job of a preservative? To keep things fresh. For food, it has to be done artificially (hence, why we are generally so against it). But, praise the Lord that HE is the natural preservative in our lives. When the environment gets tough, it is then that we are most aware of the need for (or lack of) preservatives. This was the case for Job in Job 10. Things had gotten pretty tough for him. He had suffered the loss of everything he had and, to top it off, his well-meaning friends show up and instead of encouraging him, discourage him even further. We find him at a pretty low point here. What does he remember? He has a preservative factor in his life.

Were it not for the preservative powers of the Lord in our life, His watch and care over us, we would all expire long before our time! He grants us life, He grants us favor and, on top of it all, His loving care! It is that care that preserves our spirits and keeps us fresh for the life and favor He bestows upon us.

So, the next time the environment threatens to overwhelm you, remember there are “Preservatives Included” in the life and favor God has given you. His care can help us stay fresh, despite the circumstances around us!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Read I Peter 5:6-7. What does it remind us about our cares and His Preservative care?
2. His preservative care takes on many forms. What forms has it taken on in your life lately?

FURTHER READING:
I Peter 5:6-7; Psalm 23

Oakwood’s missionaries Elin Henderson and her husband Phil serve as church planters with New Tribes in Mozambique, Africa. Elin is mother to eleven-year-old Callie and eight-year-old Elias.

Just the Way You Are

By Susan Klein

The Lord said to him, “Who gave man his mouth? Who makes him deaf or dumb? Who gives him sight or makes him blind? Is it not I, the Lord? Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to say.”

Exodus 4:11-12

Moses had been enjoying the quiet life in Midian after fleeing Egypt. Escaping Pharaoh’s attempt on his life, he now tended the flocks of his father-in law on the tranquil hillsides along with his wife and son. That is, until God got his attention by way of a burning bush! While He allowed Moses a much-needed time of respite and reflection, it was now time to get back to the work at hand. As God unfolded His plan to Moses - - to return to Egypt and rescue His people from the Pharaoh - - Moses responded most enthusiastically and valiantly (not!): “Who am I; that I should go? What if they don’t believe me? I am not eloquent, but slow of speech and tongue.”

Sound familiar? How easy is it to make excuses to God when we don’t want to do something that He is calling us to do? “But God, I can’t teach someone about you. I don’t know enough Scripture!” “I’m not gifted at evangelizing. I’m not as outgoing as other people; who would do a much better job.” “I’m past my prime. Let someone younger do it.” We are all Moses at one time or another in our lives!

But notice God’s response as He doesn’t let Moses off the hook. He asks Moses who he thinks makes man the way he is. Didn’t God make Moses without eloquence? Does He not make some people with physical impairments, or slower mental capabilities, or other limitations? Most certainly He does! But what does He promise to do in those circumstances? He promises to equip them to do the task He has called them to do. He doesn’t respond to Moses, “Well, just go and take some speech lessons first and then we’ll se if you’re qualified for the job.” Instead, He tells Moses that He will “help him speak and teach him what to say.” He knows how He wired each person that he created, and it was intentional! He would not ask someone to do anything that He is not willing to equip and empower them to do.

Since He is willing to use you just as you are, shouldn’t you be willing to say, “YES!”?

GOING DEEPER:
1. What limitations cause you to say “no” to things God might be calling you to do?
2. Are you trusting in His sovereignty and promises, or in your own strength?

FURTHER READING:
Jeremiah 1:4-10; 1 Corinthians1:26-29

Susan is our Tuesday Morning Women’s Bible Study Coordinator and one of its teachers. She is also involved in youth outreach ministry.

Building Bridges

By Jennie Pierce

“In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus…”

Philippians 2:5

Needing a bridge to complete a Sunday drama, my husband and some friends set out to complete the challenge. It took a lot of planning, money, and several long hours of sweat equity. It was exhausting work, but in the end, it was worth the effort. The stately bridge looked authentic and was decorated beautifully. Not only did it serve its purpose for the drama, but because it was built with such sound structural support, it allowed for many, many others to walk across it, signifying their devotion to Christ.

A few days later, with the bridge having served its purpose, the team began dismantling their masterpiece. I called my husband to see how it was going, and simply, yet sadly, I heard, “It’s going great! We’re almost done. Tearing down a bridge is always so much faster and easier than building one!” What he was saying as a matter of fact suddenly hit us both with the spiritual lesson that was just revealed. Why does it seem so much easier to gossip, condemn, back bite, hold a grudge or bitterness than it is to love, honor, forgive, accept and support? Relationships can be messy, and certainly require a lot of work. Sometimes they aren’t reciprocated or appreciated. Many times they don’t seem worth the effort, and, certainly there is always risk involved.

Yet, as children of God, we are called to a life of building bridges, rather than destroying them. We are called to a “One Another” lifestyle of living. Christ-like relationships work when we “love one another,” “are devoted to one another,” “honor one another,” “live in harmony with one another,” “accept one another,” “instruct one another,” warmly “greet one another,” “agree with one another,” “encourage one another,” “serve one another,” “be patient with one another,” “be kind and compassionate to one another,” “submit to one another,” “forgive one another” . . . and the list goes on! This is a description of bridge building, not bridge destroying.

So, gather up your hammer, nails, safety glasses, and even a hard hat. It might get messy out there, but the One who has called you is faithful and will help you. After all, He built the ultimate bridge - - the Cross - - because He desired a relationship with you. And it cost Him his life.

GOING DEEPER:
1. Take the time to read the “one another” references below.
2. What relationship bridge of yours needs work this week? What are you going to do about it?

FURTHER READING:
John 13:34; Romans 12:10,16; Romans 15:7,14; Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 1:10;
2 Corinthians 13:11; Galatians 5:13; Ephesians 4:2, 32:5, 21; Col. 3:13

Jennie is a wife and mother of three teenagers. She is active in Oakwood’s musical worship ministry and works part-time for a chiropractor.

Turtles and Quick Messages

By Lexi Cole

“May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.”

Psalm 19:14

Caution: this car frequently stop for turtles…I brake for turtles…I love turtles. I have no idea who was driving in front of me, but I have inferred from the three bumper stickers on their car that they really like turtles. Don’t get me wrong. I like turtles. I have nothing against them. I even wanted one in fifth grade. However, I personally have never felt a strong desire to put a bumper sticker about turtles on my car. I wasn’t particularly aware of the need to stop for turtles while driving. While I like turtles a lot, it’s not a message that I would put as a bumper sticker on the back of my car.

Bumper stickers really are interesting. In a few words, they convey a message to people you may never see again. With a quick drive-by…a barely-there interaction…I am given information about a car’s owner based on the words or picture on that bumper sticker. Though I don’t know the person, I am given rather interesting insight based on a bumper sticker.

I wonder what my “bumper stickers” – or quick messages – say in different areas of my life. In quick, short exchanges, what messages do I send to another person in the grocery checkout line, to a waiter or waitress, to a new acquaintance? Is the transforming love of Christ beaming through every word and behavior, or am I too busy to show love in these short interactions? When the line is long at the grocery store, do I still choose to speak loving kindness to the cashier? When the order is wrong at the restaurant, what words come out of my mouth?

While I hold nothing against stopping for turtles, I’m glad the Lord used these interesting bumper stickers to remind me of the quick messages I convey to others as I journey through life. Though it’s easy to get caught up in myself and stressed with the busy-ness of life, it is essential to evaluate what quick messages I’m sending and make sure they are Christ-centered and loving.

GOING DEEPER:
1. What quick messages are you conveying to those who don’t know you well?
2. What can you do to make sure those messages are ones that reflect Christ’s goodness and likeness?

FURTHER READING:
Psalm 139:1-6; 1 Thessalonians 3:12

Lexi is an Elementary Education major at Bethel University. She is currently the Interim Children’s Ministries Director at Oakwood Church.

Lovin’ Daddy

By Pamela Blattner

"In Him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in His holy name."

Psalm 33:21

I love Father’s Day. I have such fond memories of my dad. When I was a young girl, my father would regularly take me with him to do his Saturday errands. I never crossed a street in Hales Corners without holding my dad’s hand. Every time we stood together on the curb, he would extend his arm toward me, waiting for me to take his hand before we crossed to the other side. I didn’t need to know where Dad was headed or what we were going to do when we got there. He knew. My job was simply to take his hand before we crossed and hold onto it until we safely reached the other side. That’s all I had to do. Now he’s gone, I’ve grown, and I’ve learned that when I need to take the first step in anything I do, I try and remember to begin with taking hold of God’s outstretched hand. That action takes the form of calling upon the Lord as a first priority, telling Him I will hold on to Him throughout the process.

One of my favorite verses is Jeremiah 33:3. “Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know.” Many times in my life, I’ve faced a question of guidance or direction, and have to remind myself of that first step. When I have reached out and held on, I’m the most content in my spirit.

God is our source for what we need. We owe it all to Him. When you praise and lift your heart to Him in all you go through, your sense of belonging to Him as His beloved child magnifies His glory in your life…through all circumstances. He is sovereign. In His time and through His infinite wisdom, He will reveal what needs to be done.

All of us have earthly fathers. As we’ve just celebrated Father’s Day, take time to think of your heavenly father. Reach out to take His hand; it’s not complicated. If you want to, please join me in the following prayer: Father, You know the decisions I am facing right now. I don’t want to do it alone. I thank you, Lord, that you hear me as I call. I deliberately place my hand in Yours. I will hold on. Please lead me and guide me in the days ahead. My hand is in Yours from this day forward.

GOING DEEPER:
1. Remember how special you are in the eyes of our heavenly Father. May the Lord bring you into an even deeper understanding of the love of God as your eternal Father. How will you communicate this truth to someone else?

FURTHER READING:
Romans 5:8, 8:15

Pam and her husband Richard have two adult children and three grandchildren. She serves Oakwood through its Family Care Ministry and Touched Twice Ministry.

Our Father

Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. 12 The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them.

13 “Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

17 “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.
21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’

22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.

25 “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. 29 But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’

31 “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

Luke 15:11-32

This is the kind of Father we have. Celebrate!

Adam

By Elizabeth Cole

“Do you not know that the unrighteous and the wrongdoers will not inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived (misled): neither the impure and immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor those who participate in homosexuality, nor cheats (swindlers and thieves), nor greedy graspers, nor drunkards, nor foulmouthed revilers and slanderers, nor extortioners and robbers will inherit or have any share in the kingdom of God. And such some of you were [once]. But you were washed clean (purified by a complete atonement for sin and made free from the guilt of sin), and you were consecrated (set apart, hallowed), and you were justified [pronounced righteous, by trusting] in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the [Holy] Spirit of our God.”

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (The Amplified Bible)

I knew this guy once whom I could hardly stand. He was arrogant, lived a self-indulgent lifestyle, and treated those who loved him most with contempt. For conversation’s sake, let’s call him Adam, after the most influential sinner we know.

I was “Eve’s” friend and I abhorred what Adam was doing to his family. If you’d asked me who was the last name on my list of those potentially giving their love and their lives to Jesus, I would’ve said, “Hands-down, Adam.”

One night, I left Adam’s house seething. All the way home, I ranted to God about the injustices I’d just witnessed; what a jerk this guy was; how God needed to do something. As I pulled into my driveway, our God totally took my breath (and my condescension) away. “What would you be doing differently right now if you knew for sure that someday Adam would be your brother? That in the future, he’s going to turn and follow Me?”

If you ever doubt that God knows us in the most private places of our hearts, just have a conversation like this with Him. In two quick sentences, He pinpointed my prideful heart, my judgmental spirit, and my haughty assumption that I was, somehow, more deserving of God’s grace than Adam. Yet truly, the Kingdom of God is peopled with a bunch of ragamuffins who’ve been washed clean of a whole lot of ugly dirt…“and such some of you were once.” Not a single one of us is in the running for the prize of “Most Deserving.” And not one of us can predict who next will turn and follow Christ.

About Adam? He did.

GOING DEEPER
1. What kinds of people are most reviling to you? Any chance God’s calling you to love them in a way that cooperates with the “unimaginable” that God might be getting ready to do in their lives?
2. As a Christ-follower, washed clean from your previous lifestyle, have you thanked God recently for His freedom?

FURTHER READING:
Colossians 3:5-14; Acts 26:9-18; Ephesians 2:1-10

Elizabeth is a wife, mother to three grown daughters, and Director of Connecting and Women’s Ministries at Oakwood Church.

What’s Her Name…

By Elin Henderson

“Now a certain woman…”

Mark 5:25 (NKJV)

One of the odd cultural things in our African village is the fact that first names are not significant for women. In fact, if you were to walk around the village with me asking the women, “What’s her name,” I doubt you’d find more than a couple who could tell you my actual first name. They would say, “She’s Phil’s wife,” or “The mother of Callie,” or “The mother of Elias.” First names are not that important to them; rather, it’s who you’re connected to that matters, even to the point that some women’s names are unknown except to a few of their family. Since I’m someone who can’t remember people’s names, this culture is custom-made for me. I just have to learn the name of one of their kids and, voila, I have them pegged!

Isn’t it neat that God knows each of these ladies’ names, even when no one else does? How many times does Scripture read, “Now a certain woman,” or “A woman,” or “A notable woman”? Overall, a lot of the women spoken of in Scripture are not named. Yet, God specifically came down, met their need and worked in and through them.

How do we know that He knows them, hears them and cares about the “what’s her names” out there?

• He heals them – Mark 5:25-34 Jesus healed this woman of her bleeding.
• He heals/cleanses their children – Mark 7:24-30 Jesus casts out demons from a woman’s daughter.
• He provides for them – II Kings 4:1-7 Through Elisha, He saves a widow and her son from starvation.
• He restores life – II Kings 4:8-37 Also through Elisha, the Lord restores life to this “notable woman’s” son.
• He forgives them – John 8: 3-12 Jesus forgives the woman found in adultery

And there are many other accounts of His undertaking for what appears to us to be just the “what’s her names…” of Scripture.

More than knowing their individual names, He knows the hairs on their head (Luke 12:7) and captures their tears in a bottle (Psalms 56:8). Every detail of their being, every suffering they pass through, He knows and cares! May we never lose sight of the fact that each woman (or man) we come upon, whose name we may not know, is known by name by God. May the Lord use you to remind them of their significance to the creator God and His desire to be an intimate part of their lives!

Or, maybe today, if you are feeling like just another “what’s her name,” may you be encouraged. Your name and every detail of your life is known by God and He truly cares for you!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Do you have any “What’s her names” in your life for whom you could be praying and looking for opportunities to share God’s love?

FURTHER READING:
Psalms 139

Oakwood’s missionaries Elin Henderson and her husband Phil serve as church planters with New Tribes in Mozambique, Africa. Elin is mother to ten-year-old Callie and eight-year-old Elias.

Beware of Human Error!

By Susan Klein

“See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depend on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than in Christ.”

Colossians 2:8

How disappointed they all must be! I wonder what plagues their thoughts now that it didn’t happen as they expected. I am speaking about Harold Camping and all of his followers who thought that the world would end, or Judgment Day would arrive, on May 21, 2011.

Many have tried before him and many will still try to predict when the world will end. Whether using complicated mathematical formulas based on biblical numbers, or Mayan calendar dates, they are attempting to accomplish the impossible! Scripture warns us not to be taken captive by these deceptive philosophies based on principles of this world. God’s Word is the only true source of accurate information. As believers in Jesus Christ, we are to know what God’s Word has to say about such matters, so that we won’t be “taken,” nor will we be responsible for “taking” others with our wrong philosophies. Harold Camping, though his intentions may have been pure, was misled, and he misled many others.

More than once, Scripture tells us that we do not know the time of the end (see references below). Jesus Himself spends a good amount of time (in Matthew chapter 24) instructing people that it will be similar to the times of Noah in that people will be going about their daily business and it will come upon them suddenly and unexpectedly. More than once Jesus states that the Son of Man will come at an hour when we do not expect him. So, why do people waste so much time and money trying to predict something that they cannot?!!

Jesus not only warns us against these types of actions, but He also gives us some sound advice of what to do while we are awaiting His return. He instructs us to “keep watch,” and to “be ready.” This could be interpreted to live each day as if it were your last! Know that you (a believer in Christ) will be taken up, but ask yourself: “Will my neighbor?” “What am I doing to encourage others to see their need for salvation?” “Do I have relationships that need mending?” “Am I spending my time and money helping the needy and reaching the lost?”

Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. He who does what is right is righteous, just as He is righteous. (1 John 3:7) Be ready, and beware of human error!

FURTHER READING:
Matthew 24:36-42; Luke 12:40; 1 Thessalonians 5:1-3

Susan is our Tuesday Morning Women’s Bible Study Coordinator and one of its teachers. She is also involved in youth outreach ministry.

Intruder! Alert!

By Jennie Pierce

“For everyone looks out for his own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 2:21

While I was at work one day, my boss needed to step out of the office for a few minutes. Naturally, I stayed behind to hold down the fort in his absence, just in case someone might walk in unannounced. I was eager to embrace the alone time. Being in a rather selfish, introspective mood, I desired nothing more than to be left alone to my own thoughts. I was thoroughly enjoying the moment of sheer self-immersion, even secretly praying that no one would come in.

Then came the chime from the door announcing someone’s arrival. I was doomed. No! She was ruining my solitude! I wanted to hide - - pretend we weren’t open - - but the obvious neon sign which read “Open” and the unlocked door would speak the contrary. So, I did the kind, honest thing any secretary should do and mumbled to this intruder something to the effect of, “I’m sorry, the doctor needed to step out and won’t be back for a half hour. I’m sure your time is valuable to you, so feel free to go run errands if you want.” Confident she would take the bait and leave me to my solace, I all too-quickly heard her reply, “Oh, no! I would much rather just stay and chat with you!” In a flash, a wave of guilt flooded over me. I was being given a prime opportunity to invest in someone’s life. It was an opportunity that presented itself so authentically and openly as if to declare, “I dare you to listen to me, to care, to show love and concern.”

For the next thirty minutes, this dear soul just “let it all out” - - struggles, frustrations, questions about God. And for the next thirty minutes I had the blessed experience of listening and offering spiritual insight to a hungry, eager seeker - - an opportunity I almost sent sailing out the door. My self-absorbed, easily-annoyed attitude certainly didn’t match the servant/“others first” attitude Christ so aptly modeled and asks us, His followers, to model as well. By the time she left, I no longer viewed her as an intruder, but, rather as an investment. A spiritual investment. I rejoiced over her stubbornness to stay...lamented over my eagerness to send her away…and thanked God that He never sees me as a nuisance or inconvenience. He was never preoccupied with His own interests, but made you and me His utmost priority. His death on the cross is ample proof of that.

GOING DEEPER:
1. Do you welcome unplanned opportunities to serve or bless someone?
2. Today, ask God to help you be flexible and willing to lay aside personal agendas so Christ can be shared and seen in you.

FURTHER READING:
Philippians 2:1-18

Jennie is a wife and mother of three teenagers. She is active in Oakwood’s musical worship ministry and works part-time for a chiropractor.

Holy Smoke

By Karen D’Amore

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says the LORD.”

Isaiah 55:8 (RSV)

The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stunned with grief and anger. He cried, “God, how could you do this to me?”

Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. “How did you know I was here?” asked the weary man of his rescuers. “We saw your smoke signal,” they replied. –Author Unknown (1)

Discouragement is a common response to our “burning huts.” Billowing smoke consumes our focus, obscuring our ability to see God in the midst of the fire. Suffocating from the weight of the residual smoke, we despairingly shake our fist at God, angered and grieved by feelings of abandonment. As Christ-followers, we must not lose heart, acknowledging that God is always at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain, suffering and fiery trials. When circumstances scream with hopelessness, remember, our hope comes from God alone (Psalm 62:5).

“Trustfulness is based on confidence in God whose ways I do not understand.” –Oswald Chambers (2)

The life of a believer is not sealed with a trouble-free guarantee; however, we can trust in the promise that “God works all things for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28). When it seems as though our life is going up in smoke and that all is lost, God unfolds His plan, teaching us that He had everything under control the entire time.

Is your “burning hut” a chronic illness…joblessness… grief…betrayal…loneliness…? As Christ-followers, we can trust that where there are “burning huts” (fiery trials)…there is “Holy Smoke,” and in God’s way and in His time, He’ll use smoke signals to proclaim His glory!

GOING DEEPER:
1. What’s hindering your ability to see “Holy Smoke” in the midst of your “burning hut”?
2. Is your hope (or lack of it) in your circumstances or in God?

FURTHER READING:
Proverbs 3:5; Psalm 34:15; Isaiah 55:9-13

Married to Dan, Karen is a retired police officer who currently works as a Nail Technician at Craig Berns Salon. She is the administrator for Oakwood’s Tuesday a.m. Bible Study and a volunteer at the Wildlife In Need Center.

(1) Story from Skypilot.com
(2) Quote from Wordpress.com

Doggie Devotion

By Pamela Blattner

“Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Give thanks to Him, bless His name. For the Lord is good; His lovingkindness is everlasting and His faithfulness to all generations.”

Psalm 100:4-5

Just about a year ago, my husband and I rescued a 2-year-old dog that was kept in a Heavenly Hearts Rescue home. Bella never wakes us up, but quietly waits for us until we get up…at which time she beelines it for the front door, and then comes flying back in the house. She really is happy to be around my husband and me as often as possible. Between babysitting and classes, I may come in and out of the house several times during the week. I don’t think there has been an instance yet where the excitement of my return hasn’t driven her crazy!

Bella has no knowledge of the inevitable death from which the rescue saved her. Her life is simple: use the bathroom, eat, sleep, and play. Her devotion and longing desire to be with us is not out of gratitude for her life, but rather out of the sincerest love. As I write this, she sits next to me on the couch. When I give her belly rubs, she smiles. If the belly rub is accompanied with telling her she’s such a “pretty girl,” she smiles even wider. It makes me think of my own relationship with the Lord.

Jesus Christ gave up His life so that I would no longer have to spend eternity without Him in a real place called hell. He has delivered me from the bond of Satan and given me a hope that not even physical death can quench. But despite all that He’s done for me, sometimes I lack in craving His presence even as much as a my dog Bella longs for mine. Sure, I come to the Lord several times a day, but it’s generally because I need something. I think I’d be so disappointed if the only times Bella wanted our attention was when she was hungry. How can I go through life so self-centered that I don’t see the same truth mirrored in my relationship with Jesus sometimes?

Even though God doesn’t need our attention, He sure does enjoy it. I don’t want to fall into the trap of complacency in my relationship with the Lord. He is a personal God who takes joy in our relationship with Him. How much more should we take joy within the presence of Him?

GOING DEEPER:
1. I challenge you to greet the Lord with anticipation for the remainder of the day. The next time you wake up, let it be with joy, praise and thanksgiving to the God who has saved you from eternal anguish.

FURTHER READING:
Psalm 42:1-2

Pam and her husband Richard have two adult children and three grandchildren. She serves Oakwood through its Family Care Ministry and Touched Twice Ministry.

A Tragic Tumble

By Elizabeth Cole

“So then, let us stop judging one another. Instead, you should decide never to do anything that would make others stumble or fall into sin.”

Romans 14:13 (GNT)

Jack and Jill went up the hill
To fetch a pail of water.
Jack fell down and broke his crown,
And Jill came tumbling after.

I’ve always felt so sad for Jack and his friend Jill. On what seems to be an appropriate and well-intentioned mission, Jack falls. After considerable thought and pondering, I’ve come up with a number of questions about this tragedy:

1. Did you carelessly wander off the path, Jack? No map? Is that what caused you to fall down?
2. New shoes? I’ve noticed in the church nursery that new shoes are a guarantee of at least two falls per hour.
3. A little too chatty to pay attention to that turn in the road?
4. Or maybe someone had strung a line across the trail to trick you?

While Jack’s fall is certainly concerning, especially the part about his broken crown, it’s Jill who gets my particular sympathy. Apparently, she was just innocently trekking along—doing her best—when all of a sudden Jack’s fall tripped her up short and sent her tumbling too.

Yes, it’s Jill who has my heart. The Jill who’s struggling with an addiction and is invited out for “just one” with the girls. The Jill who’s trying to figure out what godly “wife-ing” and parenting looks like, but encounters consistent criticism, husband-bashing and harshness in her acquaintances. The Jill who’s new to following Christ and experiences rejection by a fellow believer for being a little too authentic. The Jill who’s getting ready to give up trying to make a friend at church. The Jill who thought that love, surrender and obedience to Christ really mattered.

Being in Christ means being in Christ together. What we think and what we do matter, not only in our own walk with Christ, but in those lives whom God has placed beside us on this part of the path.

May we choose this day to be women who grab a hand and help another woman along the way. May this be a day of deciding to lay aside what could cause a sister in Christ to stumble and, instead, to intentionally “walk in the Spirit.” May we live in such a way that others see what we do and give praise to our Father in heaven.

Walk well today, Jack.

Going Deeper:
1. Whom has God placed in your life right now to influence her spiritual walk? How are you doing with that divine privilege?
2. Take a moment to thank the Lord Jesus for those He’s placed beside you to influence you for His good in your life.

Further Reading:
Galatians 5:22-26; Matthew 5:16; 2 John 6

Elizabeth is a wife, mother to two teen-aged daughters and one grown daughter, and Director of Connecting and Women’s Ministries at Oakwood Church.

Follow the Recipe

By Carolyn Hulliberger

“Do not add to what I command you and do not subtract from it, but keep the commands of the LORD your God that I give you.”

Deuteronomy 4:2

I recently attended a kitchen demonstration by an “Iron Chef” from the Food Network©. The recipe for each dish was handed out to the audience beforehand. At the top of the main dish ingredients was listed “2 tablespoons Ararat.” Now I know my way around a kitchen, but I’m by no means a gourmet.  The ingredient “ararat” is NOT in my food vocabulary. I was determined to pay extra attention when this dish was put together so I would know what I needed. The chef came out and eventually started working on the entrée.  No “ararat” appeared. One brave audience member finally asked, “What’s ararat and when do you use it?” To which the chef replied, “I’ve never heard of ararat  - - what are you talking about?”  Turns out the ingredient listed doesn’t exist, and was an error made as files were exchanged in cyberspace!

If I take a recipe from an “Iron Chef” and add or subtract ingredients, it is no longer the chef’s recipe, it’s my own concoction. The same thing applies with God’s Word. God didn’t leave anything out when He inspired the writers of the Bible. He didn’t “forget” parts of the recipe. In spiritual principles, we are supposed to follow what is written...in the Bible, not our own ideas. Likewise, as His followers, we aren’t supposed to ignore any “ingredients”…His instructions for living His way.  Adding or subtracting from the recipe might get you an edible meal, but it won’t be the same dish that the Chef wanted you to make.

GOING DEEPER:

1.  Do you find yourself believing something about God but you don’t know why you believe it?  Look to His Word today to make sure it’s actually in the Bible.  If you’re not sure where to start, try www.biblegateway.com/topical for a keyword search. 

FURTHER READING:

Proverbs 30:5-6; Deuteronomy 12:32

Along with caring for her husband, two children and the dog, Carolyn is an Office Representative for State Farm Insurance, serves in Student Ministries with junior high girls, and is the treasurer for Women’s Ministries.

Construction Zone

By Lisa Boyer

“Mercy, peace and love be yours in abundance.”

Jude 1:2

Orange construction barrels, reduced speed limits, lane closures…all signs that road work is underway.

Last year, the road work was just a short distance from my house which made for a rough summer… loud trucks disrupted my sleep every night and lane closures made it difficult to get to work in the morning. Needless to say, I was less than happy about the road construction.

Eventually, I gained an appreciation for how the road construction was handled because, in spite of all the work they were accomplishing, they never closed the road! I was allowed to drive on it… not necessarily at the speed I wanted or with the choice of lanes I was accustomed to, but I still drove on it. I am sure that the construction process would be easier (and undoubtedly safer) if they just closed the road and then fixed it. But that’s not usually an option when it comes to road construction.

Neither is it an option when God is doing construction work in the lives of His children as He reshapes them to be more like His Son, Jesus. Most of us would love for Him to put up the orange barrels and post a huge CLOSED sign while God reshapes us, but He doesn’t work that way. When God is working in our lives, He doesn’t hide us away until He’s finished… our roads stay open during construction.

As a result, we’ll be encountering construction on more than just the highways this summer, yet without the benefit of warning signs like “Caution: Road Work Ahead” or “Reduced Speed Ahead” or “Give ‘em a Brake” to tell us we’re entering a construction zone. Maybe that’s why Paul had the foresight to instruct us to “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love” in Ephesians 4:2.

Construction is different for each of God’s children… whether they’re hurting as God walks them through a healing process… or struggling as He removes something from their lives that’s bad for them… or vulnerable as He stretches them to serve Him in new and challenging ways. No matter what the situation, they can benefit from an abundance of mercy, peace and love during their construction season.

GOING DEEPER:
1. This summer, will you watch for ways to be the hands and feet of Jesus and to support a sister in Christ as God works in her life?

FURTHER READING:
Galatians 6:2; 2 Peter 1:5-7; Ephesians 4:31-32

Lisa has been married to Ted for 19 years and they have two teenage sons. She is a co-leader for a Junior High girls’ small group at Oakwood Church.

What’s Your Sign?

By Susan Klein

“Therefore shall ye lay up these words in your heart and in your soul, and bind them for a sign upon your hand...”

Deuteronomy 11:18 (KJV)

A common question in the 60’s and 70’s, “What’s your sign?” immediately conjures up images of zodiac symbols such as Pisces the fish or Leo the lion. While astrology has lost a bit of its attraction over the years, I believe people still have signs, though of a slightly different nature.

How many people cross your path wearing a “Do not disturb!” sign? You know... the ones who are so busy they just can’t be bothered. Like their cell phones, they tend to be on “silent” mode and wish you were, too! Or maybe you’ve been exposed to people outfitted with these signs: “Danger, hazardous material,” or “Caution, flammable!” These might be visible on individuals with explosive tempers or those who choose to use their words in hurtful ways. And anyone who is a mom has been privy to this sign at least once in her life: “Caution, deaf child at play”!

So, what signs have people seen on you? Have you been caught in a “Caution, this area under construction” sign, warning people that God is not finished with you yet and you may be a little rough around the edges? Or might you be a “First Aid” kind of woman, always wanting to fix everyone’s problems? Maybe you’ve struggled with legalism in the past and carried a “Right Turn Only” sign. We all wear signs, depending on the circumstances we are in or the choices we are making. But the real question is: What sign do you want others to see on you? Have you ever had the privilege of being particularly touched by someone’s “Welcome” sign? And maybe they left a lasting impression by their “Come back soon!” sign. Perhaps, when confronted by a friend who needs a listening ear, we should don our “Park Here” sign. I imagine that’s the kind of sign we’d see on Jesus!

Some of the things Scripture tells us to clothe ourselves with (or to bind for a sign upon our hands) are compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience and forgiveness (Colossians 3:12). Wouldn’t it be great the next time someone hurt you, if they could find a sign that read, “Forgiveness found here” around your neck? Or, when your antsy children need your attention, they could know they will see you wearing the sign “Patience”?

Is it time to sport a new sign?!!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Be consciously aware today of the signs you wear around different people you interact with. Do some of those signs need changing?

FURTHER READING:
Ephesians 4:29-32, 5:1-2

Susan is our Tuesday Morning Women’s Bible Study Coordinator and one of its teachers. She is also involved in youth outreach ministry.

Eternal Gratitude

By Lexi Cole

“Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!”

2 Corinthians 9:15

I made a big mistake. Because it was raining, I put my iPod on the back of my dad’s car while I was mowing the lawn so it wouldn’t get water damage. Unknowing, Dad drove off with it still on his trunk…at least initially! We searched and searched everywhere, but couldn’t find it. Yet, in an incredible answer to prayer, a girl in my sister’s high school choir saw my iPod in her yard six miles away, went through the pictures, recognized Rachel and gave it to her…and it still works! You can imagine how thankful I am to this girl I don’t know. As the cliché goes, I am “eternally grateful.”

Christian apologist Ravi Zacharias believes that we, as Christians, have lost our wonder of God because we mix up the two types of gratitude. He writes:

Gratitude is the freeing expression of a free heart towards one who freely gave. There are actually two basic emotions within the grateful heart. One erupts on the spur of the moment. It is unstudied and enduring...A raise from the boss! A new car! A generous gift! All those are wonderful things, but they…easily can be forgotten...The gratitude that I am speaking of is not sporadic. It cannot be spent or exhausted. It is the transformation of a mind that is grateful for the giver than for the gift, for the purpose than for the present, for life itself rather than for abundance. It values a relationship rather than any benefit made possible by the relationships… In short, where there is no gratitude, there is no wonder. [1]

It makes me ask, which gratitude do I have toward God? It’s easy to be grateful to this girl who found my iPod and returned it. However, have I allowed the busy-ness and routine of life to distract me from being truly grateful to my God? When I worship, is gratitude pouring out of me? Or am I focusing on whether I like a particular worship style or song? When I pray, is it real thankfulness coming from my mouth? Or are my prayers all about me? When I engage in relationships, is my eternal gratitude for my Savior shining through every thought, word or action? Or am I living life for my own gain? Because I’ve known God’s grace for a while, it is imperative I never stop being intentionally and intensely grateful for His restoring work and relationship.

I am very thankful to this girl for finding my iPod and returning it. But I am eternally grateful to my God who has redeemed my life.

GOING DEEPER:
1. Is your gratitude towards God the quick gratitude or long-lasting?
2. Be intentional today in expressing your eternal gratitude to God for His grace.

FURTHER READING:
1 Corinthians 15:57; Ephesians 5:20; Colossians 3:17

Lexi is an Elementary Education major at Bethel University. This summer, she’s serving as the Interim Children’s Director at Oakwood.

[1] Ravi Zacharias, Recapture the Wonder. (pp.87-88)

Stuck on Low Beams

By Elin Henderson

“Cause me to know the way in which I should walk [drive] ”

Psalm 143:8b (NKJV)

Night driving can be challenging no matter where you live. Recently, we found ourselves driving after dark- - something we try to avoid like the plague here in Mozambique. Daytime driving is scary enough here; nighttime just moves into the stuff of night mares! No properly lit highway with reflector lights and bright lines; no nice shoulder; no room for two-way traffic! Instead, we found ourselves on narrow blacktop pocked with random potholes and sudden changes from blacktop to dirt without notice. Worse, mounds of dirt lay in the left-hand lane awaiting road construction crews! We shared the road with huge trucks flying by us, and with people lining the sides, preventing us from pulling over to give space to passing vehicles. Needless to say, by the time we got to our destination and pried our shaking, fear-frozen bodies out of the car, it took a good day or so just to decompress!

The only saving grace of nighttime driving is the blessed high beam lights! They allow us to see the roadside crowds, upcoming potholes, scampering animals, the occasional drunk staggering down the center...you know, the usual. We love the extra illumination those high beams give us, and are less content when we have to switch to low.

What do we do when God shuts off the high beams of His light on our path and says, “Trust me on low beam”? We squint through the windshield, struggling to make sense of the road before us, unable to see beyond a few yards… when we really want to illuminate the road to come, not to mention the shoulder with its perils! Being stuck on low beam can be scary and overwhelming as we navigate the unknown. Yet, sometimes God only shows us the path just in front of us and says, “Trust me, walk with me, I will show you where to go.” It throws us in dependence on our Good Shepherd who leads us into righteousness (Psalms 23:3), the Director of our paths (Proverbs 3:5-6), and the only LIGHT we need (Matthew 5:14, Psalms 27:1). Who knows, just around the curve, He may light up the whole road and we might get a glimpse of what lies ahead. But, in the meantime, our job is to keep driving in the light He has given us (Isaiah 2:5).

Been doing any night driving on the roads of life lately, stuck on low beam, wishing your high beam switch would work? Hang in there! He will light up just as much path as you need to get to where He wants you to go (Proverbs 4:25-27)!

GOING DEEPER:
1. In the Bible, read the verses referenced above. Which passage is most meaningful today? Memorize it!

FOR FURTHER READING:
Matthew 5:14

Oakwood’s missionaries Elin Henderson and her husband Phil serve as church planters with New Tribes in Mozambique, Africa. Elin is mother to eleven-year-old Callie and eight-year-old Elias.