Thursday, May 28, 2009

You’re Welcome
By Carol Meitler

"Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this
have entertained angels without realizing it!"
Hebrews 13:2

Two years ago, my husband and I had the privilege of traveling to Papua New Guinea to visit Jason and Kellie Knapp and their children who are missionaries there, ministering to the Tobo tribe.

We arrived to a large, welcoming group of people, many of whom helped unload the plane and carry the items up the hill to the house. Many wanted to shake our hands. They have a very unique way of shaking hands there: After shaking in the usual way, as they slide their hands off the other person’s hand, they snap their fingers. Also, while shaking hands they make a “tsk tsk” sound with their tongue, which represents kissing and welcoming a person with happiness and joy.

Recently, I was invited to a meeting at which I knew only the person inviting me. It was a little unsettling to enter a room not knowing anyone and not even knowing the room set-up…so I could sneak in and sit in a back corner unnoticed. But that didn’t happen because I was immediately surrounded by ladies seeking my acquaintance. What a welcome!

How do we welcome strangers, particularly those visiting the church we attend? Do we give them a warm handshake and smile? What a difference it can make in their worship and feelings of acceptance when people greet them and make an effort to connect with them.

Try this week to purposely greet someone you do not know. Smile at someone in the grocery store line. Take the time to chat with a person you work with whom you don’t know well. Or, if you see a task being done, ask if you can help. All of these actions show kindness and caring for strangers…and makes them feel relaxed and welcome, wherever they are.

GOING DEEPER:
1. How do you feel when someone makes an extra effort to welcome you, particularly in a situation where you are uncomfortable? Ask God to give you opportunities this week to put another person at ease.

FURTHER READING:
Genesis 18:2-5; Romans 12:13; 3 John 1:5; Matthew 25:40

Carol and her husband are parents of two grown sons. She serves Oakwood as part of the grounds-keeping team and helps with providing meals for those in need.