Thursday, November 12, 2015

Wind
By Susan Klein

“Who has gathered up the wind in the hollow of his hand?”

Fall has arrived in Wisconsin and with it… so have the winds. I was sitting at the table this morning, having my coffee, as I watched the leaves shower my backyard with each new gust of wind. Before I made my way out on this blustery day, I decided to ponder this mystery called “wind.”

Wind is truly amazing if you think about it. Wind cannot be seen, yet you know it is there by its effect on other things. A gentle breeze makes small ripples on a lake, blows wisps of hair around your face or brings relief on a hot day. Stronger winds are necessary to scatter seeds and remove old leaves from trees in preparation for winter. Gale force winds can leave a path of destruction in their wake, including the loss of lives. You also can’t hear the wind, but you hear its effect as it brushes against or between objects.

In Scripture, wind is known as ruah  in Old Testament Hebrew and, on occasion, pneuma  in New Testament Greek; both are also translated to mean “breath” or “spirit.” Many concur it is “the breath or Spirit of God.” Ruah first shows up in Genesis chapter one as “spirit,” where we read that “the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters.” It appears in chapter two as “breath,” when God “breathed into his (man’s) nostrils the breath of life…”

All throughout Scripture, we read of God’s breath or Spirit coming upon people: sweeping over lands, parting waters, closing seas, bringing life and bringing death. It is important to note that in all cases, only God can control this powerful force. “He let loose the east wind from the heavens and led forth the south wind by His powers” (Psalm 78:26). “Even the wind and the waves obey Him” (Mark 4:41). “He makes winds His messengers” (Psalm 104:4).

As I watch the leaves swirl about, it gives me great peace to know that my heavenly Father sovereignly controls this mighty force. And like the wind, even though I cannot see my God, I know He is there, in Spirit, by the effect He has on me and on everything around me. And though I cannot hear Him, I know He speaks to me through the effects of His Word on my heart.

“It’s your breath in our lungs, so we pour out our praise to You only.” (1)

GOING DEEPER:
1. How are you aware of God’s breath in your daily life?
2. Watch and listen for Him today.

FURTHER READING:

Susan is married to Mark, and has two adult children. She enjoys teaching Bible studies, writing, and tutoring with the Literacy Council. She is a member of the Peace Team at Oakwood and also co-leads a Wednesday Night Community small group

(1) “Great Are You Lord,” All Sons And Daughters, Integrity Music, 2014

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Toward Danger
By Tracy Smith

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
Joshua 1:9 (NIV)

I recently saw a news headline about a former U.S. Marine who saved a baby from a smoking vehicle. The details were pretty amazing. On his way home from his wedding rehearsal, he heard a mother crying for help.  She and her daughter were trapped in their smoking car. Without a thought, he ran toward danger to help free the baby. His brother and future father-in-law also ran toward danger and saved the mom. What is even more amazing is that this young Marine had lost both legs to an IED in Afghanistan - - running toward danger was not new to him. [1]

This got me thinking about professions that require people to run towards danger: law enforcement, firefighters and the military are just a few.  I am so thankful for those who make it their job to face danger in order to save others. I do believe that some people are hard-wired to be the ones who run into danger to save others. They are the ones who become law enforcement officers, firefighters and soldiers.

As I read this article only weeks before Veterans Day, it made me think about our military and how thankful I am for their willingness to face danger to keep our country safe. And I’m thankful for the training they receive to do the jobs they do. In the article, the Marine tries to explain his actions by saying, "With the Marines, you are taught to be prepared and act.” His training overtook his conscious mind, and he was able to act in a way that saved a little girl.

May we know our Lord’s Word so well that when we are in a difficult situation our and knowledge of Scripture can automatically fill our mind and prepare us in our actions (Psalm 86:11).

The things our military men and women do to keep us free are not easy. They run toward danger on a regular basis. For that, they deserve our respect and our thanks.
If you know a veteran or someone who is currently serving in our military, please consider thanking them for their sacrifice and their service.

GOING DEEPER:
1.  Do you know someone who is hard-wired to run toward danger rather than away? Are you willing to thank them for what they do to keep others safe?
2.  Do you know God’s Word so intimately that it would automatically fill your mind in a tough situation? If not, are you willing to take steps to change that?

FURTHER READING:


Along with being a wife and mother to two teenage boys, Tracy is a ministry assistant at Oakwood, serves on the Women’s Ministry Special Events Team and works with a great group of Junior High girls.


Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Wanted: Stretcher Bearers
By Carolyn Hulliberger

“Some men arrived carrying a paraplegic on a stretcher. They were looking for a way to get into the house and set him before Jesus. When they couldn't find a way in because of the crowd, they went up on the roof, removed some tiles, and let him down in the middle of everyone, right in front of Jesus.”
Luke 5:18-20 (MSG)

Imagine the classified ad: “Help Wanted: Stretcher Bearers. Individuals needed to help carry someone who cannot carry himself. Job requirements include a good sense of balance and a strong back. Patience and compassion are a must. The desired candidates will display creativity in problem solving. No salary is offered, but the benefits are priceless.”

The men in this portion of Scripture demonstrate great characteristics of being a Stretcher Bearer:

·         They recognized the man could not help himself.
·         They interrupted their own activities and got involved.
·         They physically carried the paralyzed man.
·         They encountered a big obstacle when they got to their destination…a huge crowd blocked their access to Jesus.
·         They got creative. Carrying the man up the likely stairs (how precarious that must have been!), they made an opening in the roof over the spot where Jesus was.
·         They worked together as a team to lower their friend through the roof.

Most of us will need a Stretcher Bearer at some point in our lives. My friend, Karen, described Stretcher Bearers that came to her aid when her husband John was nearly killed in a car accident. Karen was five months pregnant with their second child when John was taken by Flight for Life with serious injuries. Stretcher Bearers drove Karen to the trauma hospital an hour away, made meals, babysat her daughter, sat with her in the hospital, decorated their Christmas tree, wrapped her Christmas gifts, cleaned up after their four dogs, did laundry, grocery shopped, and ran an endless number of other errands. Her Stretcher Bearers continued their work for weeks, taking John to rehabilitation appointments, and later, caring for Karen and the new baby. Just as the paralyzed man’s Stretcher Bearers took him to Jesus, Karen’s Stretcher Bearers brought her closer to Jesus as well.

Today, John is fully recovered with only a slight limp when he tires. Baby Xander is an active toddler. And Karen shares her stories of the miracles performed in this crisis, giving praise to God and His provision for her through His people.

Being a Stretcher Bearer may not be a glamorous job, but witnessing a miracle is a priceless benefit!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Think of a time when you have needed a Stretcher Bearer. Send a note of appreciation.
2. Is there someone whose burden you can help to carry for a while?

FURTHER READING:
Galatians 6:9-10


Along with caring for her family, Carolyn works as an insurance representative, serves in Oakwood Church as a Community Group leader and a High School home group leader.

Monday, November 9, 2015

Altered Box
By Lisa Boyer

“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”

Every couple of years at work, we set aside a few days to clean the office. A couple years ago, we were under new management and that management had a much different idea of what clean was. To her, clean was uncluttered - - everything not in use and no longer useful was being discarded. This was serious. A dumpster was literally rolled into our office which we filled several times.

During this process, my coworkers found a few metal card file boxes and I was anxious to know their fate. It didn’t take much to get permission to take them home; after all, they were antiquated office supplies that were no longer useful. But I was excited about having them. I’m sure my coworkers thought I was a bit crazy, but I just couldn’t help it. When I looked at those metal boxes, I didn’t see what they saw; I saw what they would become. The latest crafting buzzword is “altered” and that was my plan for these boxes. If I was successful, those plain metal boxes were going to become works of art.

I altered the outside of the first box with alcohol inks, scrapbook paper and ribbon. I was so happy with how it turned out…until I opened the box. I was so focused on making the outside of the box beautiful, I neglected the inside completely. I had been more concerned with impressing the recipient of the box with its appearance than with the precious possessions the box would someday hold.

It reminded me of how God alters our lives…He begins with the inside…our hearts…He even moves into our hearts in the form of the Holy Spirit. Being altered by God takes a lifetime because we are being altered into His image, from the inside out. Over time He is seen on the outside through our actions, smiles, and attitudes. We are His work of art!

By the way, I brought two of the altered boxes to work to show my coworkers…suddenly, everyone wanted one of those old metal boxes!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Have you been more concerned about your outward appearance than the condition of your heart? Today, will you pray and ask God to alter you into His image from the inside out?
2. As you interact with other believers, will you extend them grace, remembering that they too are in the midst of the altering process?

FURTHER READING:
1 Samuel 16:7; 2 Corinthians 3:18; 1 John 3:2


Lisa has been married to Ted for 23 years and they have two sons in college. Lisa serves in Quest 56 on Sunday mornings at Oakwood. 

Friday, November 6, 2015

Race-Pacers
By Karen D’Amore

“Therefore encourage one another…”
1 Thessalonians 5:11a (NIV)

When I registered to run a four-mile race with three coworkers, we discussed how our different paces would have us finishing the race at different times. We agreed that we’d each wait at the finish line until everyone completed the race. On race day, the dynamics changed when only two of us showed up.

My racemate was a newer, inexperienced runner. She was visibly nervous as she’d never run four miles before. She admitted to feelings of intimidation when running with friends who were faster than she. Self-absorbed as I was with finishing faster than my previous races, I still assured her I’d wait patiently for her at the finish line. I encouraged her to pace herself and just focus on finishing.

Before our race, the race promoter briefed the crowd regarding water, first-aid stations and “pacers” along the route. A pacer’s job is to set and maintain a pace that aligns with the runner’s training and experience, and helps them to stay on track in finishing the race in a specific amount of time.

As the horn sounded and I sped past my racemate, conviction welled in my self-centered race shoes. Feeling “The Nudge” to become my racemate’s pacer, I s-l-o-w-e-d down and ran alongside her. In the final mile, as the heaviness of her feet mimicked her labored breathing, her running slowed and she dropped behind me. I maintained a slow but steady pace, and when the finish line became visible, I reached back and took ahold of her hand. As we re-aligned alongside each other, we crossed the finish line…hand-in-hand…side-by-side!

Beaming with the thrill of victory, my racemate proudly displayed her race medal. Fearing she couldn’t go the distance, she shared how encouraged she was having me by her side. She expressed how following the comfortable pace I’d set enabled her to finish the race. Similarly, I - - her pacer - - was encouraged  watching her “run with endurance”…and finish the race!

As that nudge of the Holy Spirit changed my focus and slowed the pace of my personal race, God became my own “Pacer” and brought scriptural running metaphors to life. Using me as a “pacer”/encourager, He diverted my selfish focus on finishing fast…to finishing well!

The Greek root for the word “encourage” in Thessalonians is translated “close-beside.” [1] With biblical metaphors likening the Christian life to a race, we’re called to run the race together… alongside each other…encouraging one another…to finish the race!

Encouragement has different faces - - requiring different paces! As Christ-followers, let’s be “race-pacers” who stick close beside our racemates...encouraging one another to “keep running” (Hebrews 12:1) and finish well!

READY…SET…GO!!!

GOING DEEPER:
1. Find a racemate and encourage one another!

FURTHER READING:

Married to Dan, Karen, a retired police officer, currently works as a Manicurist at Craig Berns Salon and Foot Care Specialist at Shorehaven Senior Facility. She’s on the Oakwood Women’s Ministry Special Events planning team.

[1] biblehub.com-Strong’s Concordance


Thursday, November 5, 2015

The Sacrifice
By Brita Crouse

“But giving thanks is a sacrifice that truly honors Me.”

“Forgive me, Father, for not being all here. When Your very name is I AM and You are in the present and here is where I can love You. Today, when I race ahead - - return me to all here.” [1]

I find myself doing this all the time. Future-focused, always planning one step ahead, wanting to move on to the next thing. But, by living like this, I’m essentially wishing parts of my life away.

This year I have been reading through One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp. In this book, Ann explains the importance of giving thanks to God in order to slow ourselves down, live a happier life and, most importantly, to acknowledge God’s presence in our lives on a daily basis. Over the course of a year, Ann made a list of 1,000 things she was thankful for. This book is her journey through that year.

Reading Ann’s story has encouraged me to look at my own life differently. So right after I read the above prayer by Ann, I wrote my own prayer:

“God, I am so guilty of this…Living like this leaves me feeling rushed, leaves me only future-focused. But to really live, to live my life for You, I have to be living in the present. I can’t fully experience life if I am continually wishing precious seconds away…Please help me to appreciate the moments I have when I have them. I will never have a second chance at living them…”

Sometimes living in the present and appreciating moments takes sacrifice. It means slowing down. It means not worrying about the future. It means seeing God - - even in difficult circumstances. This sacrifice is not easy; it requires patience and attention to detail. But when we find things to give thanks for, we have a better view of God’s goodness, love and grace in our lives.

Maybe you are dealing with a difficult medical diagnosis? Maybe you are struggling in your marriage or in other relationships? Maybe you just received exciting news? Maybe you just got that promotion at work? God doesn’t love us any less or any more through these highs and lows of life. He loves us perfectly - - all the time. He desires to bless you, so let Him do it. Otherwise, you could be missing out on something great. 

So when you find yourself wishing moments away? Slow down, live presently, and find time to give thanks.

GOING DEEPER:
1.        Be more intentional about finding things in your daily life to be thankful for. Can you find 1,000 things over the course of a year?

FURTHER READING:

Brita is currently working toward her Master’s in Counseling at the University of Minnesota-Twin Cities. She has called Oakwood her home church for the past seventeen years.


[1] Ann Voskamp, One Thousand Gifts, (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2011) 65.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

The Eyes of Jesus
By Tracy Smith

“You are judging by appearances. If anyone is confident that they belong to Christ, they should consider again that we belong to Christ just as much as they do.”

Give me Your eyes for just one second
Give me Your eyes so I can see
Everything that I keep missing
Give me Your love for humanity
Give me Your arms for the broken-hearted
The ones that are far beyond my reach
Give me Your heart for the ones forgotten
Give me Your eyes so I can see
[1]

As a junior high leader at my church, I have the privilege of attending awesome events like our recent retreat. One of the videos we watched was called “God’s Glasses” and it showed a young man frustrated with many things around him.

His internal dialogue was extremely crabby and frustrated with everyone he encountered: the pre-teen who skateboards behind his car every day as he’s leaving; a woman who cuts him off in the parking lot and steals his parking space; a barista who is overworked so he must wait for his coffee, etc.

In the midst of his internal grouching, he is given a pair of glasses to wear that give him different insight on those around him. Truths about the people around him are revealed, and his internal attitude starts to change. Some of the things he sees?
The skateboarder “…just needs someone to care.”
The parking spot stealer “…is grieving her best friend.”
The overworked (and possibly slow-moving) barista “…is fighting addiction.”

His internal dialogue, which quite frankly seemed to make sense, is suddenly revealed as short-sighted. When it is revealed what these people are dealing with on the inside, the outside behaviors are not as frustrating. The video ends with a glimpse of what he is doing to change himself and his reactions.

I’m ashamed to admit that my internal dialogue can sound an awful lot like the young man in the beginning of the video - - especially in certain situations.

I’m challenging myself to stop that negative, internal dialogue.  And even though I don’t have a special pair of glasses to show me what is really happening in someone’s life, I need to react with compassion, kindness and grace to those around me.


GOING DEEPER:
1.  Watch the God’s Glasses video. Does this video challenge you in any way? If so, what is your plan to change things?
2.  Watch the video for the Brandon Heath song, “Give Me Your Eyes.” Does this video challenge you to really see those around you? If so, what is your plan to truly see others?

FURTHER READING:

Along with being a wife and mother to two teenage boys, Tracy is a ministry assistant at Oakwood, serves on the Women’s Ministry Special Events Team and works with a great group of junior high girls.



Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Can I Have One?
By Jeannine Sawall

  Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

While I like to think I have taught my children to have a generous spirit, occasionally, their generosity can be called into question. While eating, I asked one of my boys if I could have one of his french fries.  He started looking in his bag of fries with diligence. I sat there waiting with great expectation; he must be searching for the best fry in the package! Finally, he pulled one out and handed it to me…a burnt little stub of a fry!!  “Really!?!…this is the best you have for me?” I asked.  “If I give you more, I won’t have enough!” was his reply. I told him he had a WHOLE bag of fries and he could share a few with his mom! He begrudgingly pulled out a couple of decent-looking fries to share.

At first, I was a little miffed at his stinginess. I mean, after all…I paid for those fries…technically, they were ALL mine. Whenever my boys ask to share something I had, I happily handed it over. Hadn’t I modeled a generous spirit to them? As I sat there with my thoughts, it came to me that oftentimes I offer the Lord that same stubby, burnt fry as well. How often had He asked for my time, my energy, my talents and I begrudgingly game Him a few minutes, a half-hearted effort or something less than my best? Everything I had came from His hand… didn’t He deserve better than that?

It’s easy to see others’ lack of generosity, but it’s more difficult to see our own. How often has the Lord asked something of us and we’ve offered him the short, burnt fry? Maybe it’s a ministry you’re being asked to be a part of and you feel you can’t spare the time. Perhaps it’s a friend who needs some encouragement and you just don’t feel you have the energy. Or maybe it’s a talent you’re being asked to share when you are feeling overwhelmed already. We need to consider all we have - - our time, our energy and our talents - - as gifts from the Lord and we need to examine our responses when asked to share them. Sometimes, it is legitimate to say “no,” but often, we are called to say “yes” despite wanting to offer only the short fry! We can trust the Lord to always provide us with enough! 


GOING DEEPER:
1.  Where in your life are you offering less than your best to the Lord?
2.  What can you do to trust Him more with your time, talent and energies?

FURTHER READING:


Jeannine is a wife and mother of four active boys. She works in the property management business. Jeannine serves in the Oakwood Cafe and is actively involved in ministry to those walking through grief.

Monday, November 2, 2015

The Gift-Giver
By Elizabeth Cole

“…and [the father] said to him, ‘Son, you have always been with me, and all that is mine is yours. But we had to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live, and was lost and has been found.’”

Once upon a time, there was a really fantastic Gift-giver. He was the sort who took the time to know - - really know - - the recipients of His gifts, and would choose just the sort of gifts that would be best for them.

He also had lavish wealth and could afford to give gifts of inestimable value. He gave gifts that He Himself cherished, gifts that delighted Him and brought Him great pleasure.

And so He gave gifts to those He loved. His loved ones communicated their valuation of His gifts through the way they treated the gifts upon receiving them. Some ignored the gifts. Some were ecstatic when they first got the gifts…but stored them on the shelf in the hall closet, since the gifts could sometimes be kind of messy. Some put the gifts in a place of honor until something…anything…drew their attention elsewhere.

Then there were those who accepted the gifts in humble gratitude, recognizing them for what they were: an expression of affection and confidence from the Gift-giver - - lavish love for both the gift-receiver, as well as the very gifts themselves. Those recipients welcomed and reveled in the gifts, took time to intentionally determine where the gifts could best be protected and cared for, and shouted out an enthusiastic “thank you” to their amazing Gift-giver.

Once upon a time, there was a God who cared enough about His Church to give them “gifts” - - actual people He loved enough to die for, people who needed to experience Jesus’ love through His family, people who longed to know who He is and why it matters. And since He cares so very much for these people-gifts, I would imagine He would give them to faith communities whom He knows will welcome and steward and grow them well…and communicate heartfelt “thanks” through actions, not just words.

Our God has placed those He cherishes in our lives and in our churches this week…as precious gifts from a really fantastic Gift-giver. How’s our “thank you”?

GOING DEEPER:
1. Is God calling you to open up time in your week to intentionally care for those He’s bringing into your life or church? Will you?

FURTHER READING:
John 1:43-45,15:17; James 2:1-9

Elizabeth is a wife with three grown daughters and two sons-in-law, and is the Director of Connecting at Oakwood Church

Friday, October 30, 2015

Today
By Peggy Kleckner

“This is the day the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it.”

Today is a new day: a one-of-a-kind. There will never be another one like it. It is unique, and it is a gift from our sovereign God.

Have you declared this verse over your day? I know that you, like me, have probably already weighed your new day out on your own scale. You have viewed it from your own perspective. If it is raining and that doesn’t fit into your idea of a “good” day, you have labeled the rain “bad” and perhaps the day “bad,” as well. If you feel prepared, it is “good” day. If you feel weak, it is “bad.” Have you considered that these are your  labels?

“This is the day the Lord has made.”  These words alone should encourage us. We know the One who made this day! We can, and should, make the choice to actually plan on rejoicing and being glad in this day. I must choose to look for Him in my day.

I love that the verse says “we.” This reminds me to enter my day with Jesus…as well as with others.

If I am going to choose to rejoice, where do I start? Where do you look when you are in chaos?  How can you see when the days seem overwhelming? Start by asking God Himself to open your eyes.  Even if you have to come to Him with a bad attitude, open your mouth and ask Him to open your eyes to the smallest glimmers of His goodness in this day. Next, start watching and praising.

Where have you seen His provision in your day? Look past the one answer you are continuing to look for and actively look for all of the other ways that He is providing, and praise Him for those. Where have you seen His kindness displayed? Perhaps in a sales clerk, in a woman at work, in your spouse? Who has displayed His patience? What or who reveals His caring nature to you? What remembrance from your past helps to stir up hope in this day?

You may need a friend to help you “see” Him in your darkest days. Let someone in to help. I am sure that God has placed people in your life who are willing to walk with you.

What instruction, what encouragement, what is it that God is trying to help you see in this gift of today?

GOING DEEPER:
1.  What circumstance has you so consumed that you are missing God’s goodness in this day?
2.  Can you declare God’s goodness even when you cannot see Him or feel His nearness?

FURTHER READING:

Peggy is a wife and mother of four adult children - - two sons and two stepsons, and she is an active encourager at Oakwood Church in Delafield.


Thursday, October 29, 2015

Lord, I Need You
By Brita Crouse

“And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groaning that cannot be expressed in words.”

This past year, I had the opportunity to nanny for a family with a precious baby girl. Now I will readily admit…babies are not my favorite. Their fragility and dependency frighten me (and so do their protective mothers). But after spending several weeks and months with baby L., I became more comfortable looking after her and making sure her needs were met. She went from lying on the floor, to rolling over, to crawling, to pulling herself up to stand, to finally taking steps. And I was witness to it all. Amazing!

There is one day with baby L. that I remember in particular. She was playing with her brother in the living room, and I was in the kitchen.  I had my back to the kiddos, getting them something ready to eat. When I suddenly turned around, L. was sitting in front of me: smiling. I said, “Hi.” And then I went back to what I was doing. Moments later, L. crawled over to me, reached up, and tried grabbing onto any part of me she could.

She wanted to be held. She wanted to be comforted. In that moment, L. needed me.

The reason this moment struck me as so profound is because I do the very same thing with my Heavenly Father. I approach him… sometimes quietly, sometimes abruptly, wanting to interact, wanting to be held, wanting to be comforted. I need Him.

We all have our own unique ways of coming before God - - of recognizing our need for Him. We see it daily, in our own lives, as we encounter difficulties. We see it in the outstretched arms and the “amens” during worship. We see it in the bent-over-crying-till-it-hurts days of trial. We see it in the faces of loved ones suffering with terminal illness. Abba, we need You.

Some days we may not know how to pray for what we need. In these moments of need, we have the Holy Spirit intervening for us, coming before God, to communicate our needs that we cannot adequately express.

How fortunate we are to have Someone who will intervene on our behalf when we cannot find the words to say. Even when we aren’t sure what to ask for, we still have a God who knows and hears our needs.

GOING DEEPER:
1.       Listen to “Lord, I Need You” by Matt Maher. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuvfMDhTyMA)
2.  In Greek, “Abba” is a term of affection for Father, similar to “Papa.” How are you expressing your daily need for God in this way?

FURTHER READING:


Brita is currently working toward her Master’s in Counseling at the University of Minnesota-Twin Cities. She has called Oakwood her home church for the past seventeen years.


Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Ordinary
By Tracy Smith

“The members of the council were amazed when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, for they could see that they were ordinary men with no special training in the Scriptures. They also recognized them as men who had been with Jesus.”
Acts 4:13 (NLT)

Recently, our church had a sermon series titled Ordinary: Like You.  The subtitle was, “What difference do I make?”

Isn’t that the question we all wrestle with at some time or another? Do I really matter? Does what I do/don’t do really make a difference? And the big one, “There is nothing special about me, so what can I do?”

At the end of his sermons, our pastor has something called “The One Thing” to remember from the sermon. My favorite “One Thing” from that sermon series was this: “My ordinariness is the key to my impact on others.” Let me give that to you again, “My ordinariness is the key to my impact on others.”

That thought stopped me in my tracks and really made me think. The fact that I am ordinary is the key.

Think about the men Jesus surrounded Himself with - - a lot of ordinary fisherman. In the New Testament, Hebrews 11has a “Hall of Faith” full of ordinary people who did extraordinary things for God.
            Abel …who obeyed and brought a favorable offering.
            Noah…who obeyed and built the ark.
            Moses…who thought he was too ordinary and unqualified to lead.
            Rahab…a prostitute who trusted.

I also think of the men who worked to build the Church after Jesus’ resurrection.
            Paul…who used to persecute Christians.
            Peter…who seemingly had his foot in his mouth more often than not.

Are you ordinary? If so, then you are perfect for God to use!


GOING DEEPER:
1. Has thinking of yourself as “not special enough” stopped you from serving God? If so, what can you do to change that?

FURTHER READING:


Along with being a wife and mother to two teenage sons, Tracy is a ministry assistant at Oakwood, serves on the Women’s Ministry Special Events Team and works with a great group of Junior High girls.

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Wild Cards
By Elin Henderson

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”
Romans 8:28 (NKJV)

Nothing is more frustrating in a good game of Uno than to be one card away from winning and someone throws out a Wild Card. You know, the one that changes everything. You had it all planned out and, BOOM, just like that, you are drawing yet another card from the stack!! Back to square one!! BUT at the same time, nothing is more exhilarating than to play or benefit from a Wild Card that’s IN your favor just one card before “going out.” 

God is in the habit of throwing Wild Cards into our lives. Just when we think we have everything under control and figured out, He throws it onto the table and changes things dramatically. Or, just when things look hopeless and helpless, He comes along and throws a Wild Card that changes things and suddenly it all comes together beautifully. Either way, He does it to remind us that HE is the One in charge of the cards! 

So the next time you wonder why life has taken a very unexpected turn, either for the worse or the better, keep in mind that in this game of Uno (the one we call “life”), God holds all the cards. He is playing them out strategically in our lives to keep us dependent on Him, to keep us from trusting our own plans and understanding. Embrace those Wild Cards and trust Him with the game.

GOING DEEPER:
1.  Looking back on some of the Wild Cards you have come across in your life (positive and negative), what are the things that God has taught you in and through them?
2. How can that help you as you face future Wild Cards?
3.  How is the story of Joseph a good example of God’s using some Wild Cards? What does Genesis 50:20 teach us about how he viewed these Wild Cards?

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Oakwood’s missionaries Elin Henderson (a registered nurse) and her husband Phil serve as church planters with New Tribes in Mozambique, Africa.  Elin is mother to fourteen-year-old Callie and twelve-year-old Elias.

Monday, October 26, 2015

Secret Sins
Jeannine Sawall

“He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy.”

Walking along the beach, I was enjoying the morning sun, a slight breeze and the conversation of my walking partner when we suddenly noticed several dark splotches in the water. The “splotches” turned out to be a small type of stingray called a skate. The skates also seemed to be enjoying a morning at the beach. Every once in awhile, one of them would break away from the group they were swimming with, catch a wave and body surf into shore. It was fun to share the morning with them.

As my friend and I moved away from these creatures, she asked me if I still planned on taking a paddle board lesson later that week. I told her it was still in the plans. She expressed her hesitation after seeing the skates. She asked, “You still want to take a lesson even after seeing all those creatures in the water?” I told her that whether I saw the creatures that morning or not, they were still in the water. I wasn’t going to let those skates come between me and my lesson.

As we continued walking, it came to me that oftentimes as Christians, we consider sins we can plainly see (promiscuity, addiction, murder, adultery…the list could go on) as serious sins. They are obvious to anyone and, therefore, more ungodly. However, just because others can’t openly see our sins, doesn’t mean they aren’t there, lurking below the surface, coming between us and the Lord.

The Bible teaches that any sin - - obvious in-your-face sins and those concealed from anyone’s sight - - carry the same guilt. All sin is serious and interferes with our relationship with the Lord. It doesn’t matter if it’s hatred or murder, lustful thoughts or adultery, a white lie or stealing; sin is sin whether kept hidden or acted on openly. Just because no one else may see it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

The fact is that the ocean is full of sea creatures. It would be easy to live in a world where I can pretend if I don’t see them, they don’t exist. However, it’s impossible to live that kind of Christian life. There is no secret sin because God sees below the surface. Nothing is hidden from Him. Thankfully, believers are given the promise that God forgives any sin we acknowledge to Him. When we keep our relationship honest with God, He’ll take us deeper than we expected, and we won’t worry about getting in the water with Him.


GOING DEEPER:
1.  What sins are you keeping hidden?
2.  What stops you from going deeper with God?

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Jeannine is a wife and mother of four active boys. She works in the property management business. Jeannine serves in the Oakwood Cafe and is actively involved in ministry to those walking through grief.